Do what's best for you. I would say that if he wants you to kick them out so he can move in, definitely don't do it...

If he thinks you want him more, show him you don't (that's a good 180), be happy with or without him, that's where you need to get to.

M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized