My husband keeps breaking up with me. Basically now he's saying that he is most likely leaving unless I change and somehow he feels positively towards me. The date is 8/15.
I can follow the 180 suggestions but it's slightly different since he's basically got me on probation since I want it more. (He's the bigger offender than me) so do I act like we're not together? He does act nicer when I do nice things for him though not all the time. BIG URGENT QUESTION: The big pressing issue is he wants me to give our tenants notice on a house that I bought before we were married and then it became joint property. Tomorrow is the day I'd have to do it. How do I respond within the DB guidelines to him forcing me to do something major that I'm not ready to do? I feel really manipulated. The downpayment was an inheritance. Asking him to promise that I get back will anger him and refusing to give them notice will anger him.
We have two kids. I have ADHD and I'm always afraid I'll lose my job and I guess that's part of why I want to stay in the marriage but also I love a lot of things about the man he used to be. Please help!
Me: 48 Him: 50 Trying to focus on me but we have kids and he still wants to do stuff together sometimes.
