What if he's not committed?

[twinmom]

Sara, correct me if I'm reading into this wrong but I get the feeling you really aren't okay with a polygamist lifestyle. I think you need to step back and figure out FIRST if you're really okay sharing him with anyone.

Next, I would stop the demands and threats and just focus on you and the kids. Think about where your support system is and how to maximize their help. Do things for you and think about "who" you were when you met him. Try to regain YOU.