I echo Zeus and Sandi, I have needed the space away from WW to rebuild myself and it wasn't going to happen in the same houe together. I had to hit rock bottom a few months ago to start going back up. Don't fear it, it will happen but then you will move forward, not necessarily move on yet but you must move forward.
The space has allowed me to see the problems from a better perspective, (as I once read Coach say, to look at the relationship from outside the fishbowl) to see were we both made mistakes. We can keep having our pity parties or we can step up, grow and learn from this difficult time. It has taken some 2x4's here and from family and friends to keep me straight at times but you do get there. I also look back to who I was before, to rebuild that confident man who handled anything and add the new things I am learning.
Read books, especially into what women find attractive, write down your positive qualities (we all have them and the list is longer than you think). Focus on these and improve yourself.
Search posts from Coach, I have found alot of really good posts by him.
And as Sandi told me, if you are always watching her your ship will sink, let her go. Life your life and embrace the time you have!
