One thing I have noticed with W and I'm struggling at times to know to be. There are times when W says things that can lead to me asking questions but I haven't asked anything about her life for the last 5 months. She gives me information and, like I said, gives these openings for questions. She doesn't ask questions to me (directly). I really am just focusing on rebuilding me alone and being the best Dad I can when I have my kids. I know she needed space, I have looked back at things last year when she would blow up at me and it was because we were always around eachother and we were not communicating our needs effectively.

Could these be examples of just checking were I am?