I'm going to talk to my GP about recommending an IC for me this week. I've tried two different ones. The first was awful (interrupted, judged, kept telling me how controlling H was...duh. so am I!) And the second was a great listener and validator, but not much help beyond that. I need a smart, tough cookie IC who can help me move forward. I'm stubborn, I guess.
On another note, I'm at the vacation home on the river. It's beautiful and peaceful here. He was still here when I got here and wanted to show me the "good" coffee he got and that he had 1/2 and 1/2 (he knows I don'the do creamers). I also started to put my stuff in our bedroom and caught myself. I put myself in one of the other rooms and he grabbed my stuff and put it back in our room. Well, that was nice...it is the main floor master. We watched the basketball game and talked for a bit, then he left. He then called for basketball play by plays until he could get the game to come in on his car radio. See, I'm still good for something!
He left his supplements on the dresser. Dhea and l-argenine. Yep. I assume he's either trying to hold back the hands of time or worried about his mom's condition getting to him. Or both.
Anyway, GAL activities today. 10k at a nearby lake and then lunch with the meetup friends that are doing it with me at a lakeside resort. Hoping my sprained foot and toes are healed enough, lol. It's been two weeks, right?
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
