Hang in there. Focus on your plan. No looking back at the shoulda woulda coulda's. I already did all that for both of us the past couple of months, and I am still standing. Focus on getting to a place of clear thought for now. The other stuff will work its way out. it just seems to have a way of doing so. Move the money on Tuesday. Its all community money until the divorce is final. Your L will advise you and assist. Now is the time to focus on facts and truths. Emotions do not help in divorce processes. My STBXW found that out the hard way and she left and filed the D.
Anyway, enough of that from me. Lets get you to a place that is comfortable. Lets focus on an action or activity that can force your focus on that. Trust me, if I could go back, I would do that. All my worrying changed nothing. No use in paying the price twice, I say.
What can I do to help today. Let me know. i am here for you.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
