[quote] This EA stuff is awful because so many people believe the friendship story and they don't realize that your spouse has literally replaced you with someone else. Yuck!
I'm dealing with that exact problem. It is literally driving me nuts. I actually don't know what other people in my former "social group" really believe was/is going on with regards to why my H and I are separated (not everyone knows he filed), but they were all good friends of Bubbles and are clients of H. I haven't spoken to them since he filed; no one has contacted me. So I really don't know their takes on it. But for YEARS it was very obvious that they were close friends and did things alone together. It really does hurt worse that NO ONE has stood up and said this is wrong. Including Bubble's H. They just all embrace H and abandoned me. I guess they have more to gain by staying friends with him...a great vacation home to go to and, for some, a steady job. Plus, he's a nice guy. As I said before, he fits the "nice guy syndrome" discussed on bluewave's thread to a t.
Sorry for the pity party. Its just the one thing I have a hard time understanding since I keep hearing how "nice" I am from everyone, including H. It is literally eating me up inside.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
