Grass are you doing that relationship timeline as part of working on grief recovery? I'm working on that process and just did the same thing for my own R.
The rest of what you wrote also resonates with what I'm learning, that everything we're feeling is normal for us and that our healing has no timeline. It'll take as long as it takes, and our process is our own. Anyway, I'm just curious, because it sounds so similar to what I'm working through.
You sounded like you were in real danger at the end of your R. I'm terrified on your behalf just reading about all those red flags. Are you safe now?
Sorry for the hijack, Zeus.
Phoebe there were plenty of other things that happened that I don't want out in the public eye and it took years to build up to that. That's only the very short readers digest version.
He's still about he's still playing his stupid games. It's just I don't see him. I know its him he knows it's him. I get really tired of it.
Once settlement happens and yes he's string it out big time. I'm free, free but until then it's timelines for Laywer and court.
The thing I found my ah huh moment recently is the time line, just how many chances this man had. How much I tryed to work with him even tho he had acted out in a violent way. You cannot work with a psychopath but us nice folks nice ourselves into a corner fro there amusement.
Every email I read from him in the past not once does he acknowledge what he as done. He doesn't even say I hit son. He cannot verbalise it he cannot write it.
If they cannot do these things then r or marriage is doomed really. They cannot address this factors that Contribute to the marriage. Same with some of the s talked about.
It's about the m being between 2 grown adults. In my case xh2 spent about 5 years acting like the child I was expected to be his moral compass. I hit a huge wall like other in this thread.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
