Juju, I think shared values and interests are helpful when you're not skating on emotions. My SD is having a very difficult time with her H (addiction issues) but they have shared interests and passions and work that help them enjoy their time together and take a break from the problems.

I'm glad you're in such a good place today! Best of luck with the job opportunities.

Like you, I have also experienced a strange ease of life since I moved and many opportunities presenting themselves.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17