Thank you job and Sotto! Sotto, later today I remembered your post from awhile back. "I remain calm in the face of fear. I remain calm in the face of pain. I remain calm in the face of anger. I remain calm in the face if surprises. I remain calm in the face of anything. I remain calm. I breathe into fear. I breathe into pain. I breathe into anger. I breathe into surprises. I breathe into anything. I breathe."
So through a bunch of correspondence, I found out today that w is planning her move in July and the guardian attorney advised her to tell me of her plans (I told her this was a major concern of mine yesterday at our first meeting so it must have come up later when w talked to her). In an email I was told she thought every other week was appropriate until w moves and then every 2 weeks after that. W's attorney said how w got a raise but has to move and also has now mentioned "dirty laundry", how w can't talk to me (well we've been texting and she's come over here etc), and how I can't have custody and keep my job, etc in her email to the other attorneys in. In w's email to me she says she got a change in job title and increase in commission rate (not the same as raise!), especially since where she is moving is a dying city, there was just a news article how the streets were lined with for sale signs! It's a bust town, there is even a syndrome named after that town!
Stressful day but I did speak w my boss and he said they'd work with me to do whatever I needed in regard to travel.
I have a meeting with the guardian attorney Tuesday, I've printed off all the emails from w, good and bad, I plan on laying it all out for her. Trying to keep my head up and think positive.
