Zuess, yep your right! I can hang here and take it or change for real. So hard when lives are intertwined...or so I thought it helps to read here and see others have my struggles. She is textbook WW. Just hard to believe still for some reason. I can change, she did, the minute I exposed my knowledge of her affair. Huge backslide tonight, all the reading in the world is not helping me right now. I just can't stop with the attacks, I am calm but still just keep on with criticism of her actions. Not helping and pushing her further away. It doesn't make me feel better. She traps me and I bite every time.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
