I hope all marriages are not filled with misery! There has to be nice times as well! Maybe not all the time, but a good part of it. Obviously hard for us to see now though.
I still have to think about the compatability vs committment factor regarding what keeps a marriage together... Dont you think committment would be easier if partners were both compatible?
my husband and I were not compatible. We didn't think alike, we didn't have the same values or interests. My parents did though.
