ggrass, when I said I don't believe deal breakers it excludes infidelity and loaded guns. I wish more people in your sitch had the strength to protect themselves.
I just also wish that's what it took before people threw in the towel.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15