I may be wrong, but I don't think that Sandi was saying to accept her as is.. Your W told you to take your kid to the park, then she packed up her $hit and bailed... Think about that, are you gonna live life wondering if she will be there when you get home?
I think That you need to work on yourself, including your communication, then she needs to "want" to be with you, want it enough that she is willing to do whatever it takes to make you two succeed... How things are aren't working, you are worth having a W that will tell you when there are issues, or at the very least, tell you when they are leaving you.. Work on you.
You're right. My Mom told me that as well. I'm just trying not to let anger get the best of me. I'm working on putting the past behind me, except as a reference. I am working on me. Doing my best to take care of me, and my son, and to let her communicate at her own pace. Cadet said she shows depression signs, and when I looked up the symptoms I agreed him. Actually, today she told me she's going to schedule a Dr's appointment when time allows because she's been having chronic headaches, tummy troubles and sleeps terribly. I'm starting DR today, so my techniques should be improving quickly.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
