A "floppy fish". Now that a first for that description, but I can see where it would apply to your h and any other MLCer who is all over the place. As long as you don't rock his boat, he's going to be nice. Also, there are times when they are nice because their either want something or they've done something such as filing or cutting you off financially. I'm not trying to scare you...but don't let your guard down.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.