Sandi, it's not overnight, just going out to a club/bar for a few hours.. Actually, it seems that they are changing locations to go to a country bar, to do some line dancing (I'm much more comfortable with than original plan), I was planning on not asking for reassurances because I want to see what she does on her own. With the change of venue my anxiety has gone way down (it's right next to the house and we've been there a lot together), so I'm pretty happy right now. The original plan was to go to a high class bar, which has a reputation as a milf bar.

As for me, I am going out with some friends, I actually had my plans in place first so I think that made it easier for her to ask me about her going out. She also asked me to go out with her the next night, pseudo date night, which I think is a good sign. Things seem to be going good, but I am still very cautious...


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized