OMG, so I got an email from w that she doesn't want to correspond outside of an attorney and that's why didn't answer. So I call the school back and the secretary tells me she said they aren't absent. So I misheard her and got all this started with attorneys and made myself look bad. I hope this doesn't hurt me down the road. My state won't appoint shared custody unless both parents agree, this is sickening since I know her plan is in full swing as I suspected.
