I've cut off contact with the friends that told me to file. I'm down to a few supportive friends that know my husband very well. He's been extremely nice both in person and on the phone. Almost scary nice compared to how terrible he treated me during his affair. He does not say a word about finances, how much I am spending, etc. He's happy when we talk. My therapist calls him "floppy fish". You can't catch a floppy fish.
M 25 T 29 D 22 S 18 BD 9-11-15 H says he's ambivalent about staying in the marriage
