I just read your thread and I am very sorry you are here.
I failed miserably at following the rules and being the lighthouse. Please, listen to the folks on this site. They know what they are talking about. I was a hard headed guy who thought he could fix anything. Now I know that you cant fix people.
My situation has been going on since March of 2015. I hope you guys are able to resolve the issues sooner than later but get ready for the long haul. I never thought I would still be going through the emotions this long.
It sounds like you are on the right track and are doing much better than I did. Just hang in there.
TK
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16
