I don't want a relationship that I have to fight for.
We all know that this makes no sense. There are no relationships that proceed on autopilot. Life happens. Disagreements happen. They are natural. And they are healthy.
Unfortunately, you cant tell her this right now. It's going to need to be something she learns on her own.
She has started you down two separate paths. Let her walk on hers. You walk on yours. Maybe someday in the future, they will cross again.
Originally Posted By: KyleR
I'd like to draw a line under things and move on without all of this, constantly bringing things back up. Please.
Well, at least you can see the drawbacks of pursuing and R talk. It doesnt do any good for you. So just leave her be for some time. It's time to get to work on rebuilding you into KyleS, a man only a fool would leave.
