Weird Reaction

[StepUp]

I wish I could tell you guys last night went smoothly and that I passed with flying colors. I did not.

It was really difficult.

Sandi2, you were right, she is going to fight me to the death.

I moved the money to a separate checking account and have the money we stashed for the Maui trip but did not tell her what I have done yet.

She came come at about 11 or so, happy and dancing from wherever she had just came from.

I told her I thought she should sleep in a different room. She asked why, I said I think we should separate as this is not working. No mention of the affair as I thought she might become defensive again and deny the whole thing.

She went downstairs for a while. Then she started packing her stuff. She wanted me to stop her, I did not. She then asked me to put our daughter in the car with her so as not to wake her. I did not dispute/ I obliged. (She had said prior she had arranged to stay with her sister should she ever want to leave) She left. I did not stop her. She called me to say she was dropping off our daughter and she was going to go sleep in the car tonight. I said sleep in the car? No answer.

I put our daughter back in her bed (she was sound asleep the whole time). I went to bed. Maybe an hour later she is in the bedroom. She says her back is hurting (she has chronic back pain) and she is sleeping in the bed. I sit up and look her in the eye. I get up and attempt to hold her and said we can reconcile this. She pushes me away and does not want me to touch her. She gets in bed I massage her back for 10 mins and go to sleep.