Planning to visit family one of the days for my birthday weekend. Not inviting the wife, and if she asks to go I plan to tell her no. Not sure how to say it though, in a constructive way without it sounding punitive.
Things with OM seem to be sputtering out, but she has not broken off contact with him. So I don't really want her with and don't feel like putting on a show for the family.
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11
