I dont see why these are urgent messages. It's still very early in the US. Im guessing some of the moderators or other folks could chime in. Be patient!
I agree.
All this conversation is nothing but pursuit and attachment. It is a form of control.
Cardinal rule is STFU!!
My suggestion is to think of that before you say anything from now on.
DETACH is the single most important thing that you can DO. You can slow the process down but you can't speed it up. Not detaching slows all this down.
MHO is that is NOT what you want to do, you want the process to go as fast as possible. Even though I could be talking about years!
Come we start fresh and leave this bad 5months behind us.
Lets rebuild us together and get our house back on track, I vow to leave the friends and focus on us and our marriage , rebuild the trust and you need to come closer to me.
Not to forget but move forward and learn and grow together.
