So, I think the hardest part about detachment for me is fearing that when she has the kids I won't get to know how they are doing, and she has the kids more than me. I'm going to do it this time though.


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16