So, I think the hardest part about detachment for me is fearing that when she has the kids I won't get to know how they are doing, and she has the kids more than me. I'm going to do it this time though.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16