Originally Posted By: job
Please stop giving her articles on affairs. She's not going to listen to what you have to say about them, much less read the articles. The more you try to educate her on this stuff, the more determined she's going to be do what she's doing. Leave her to her mess and allow the emotional affair to die a natural death. Keep the focus on you and continue moving forward.


Job,

I stopped giving her articles a long time ago. I should've been a little more clear about that. In fact, the only reason I have any contact with her is because of our sons. I'm not "going dark" per se, I just don't care to have anything to do with a WW that would break up her family because of her creepy friend. I thought I was a nice guy, but I had no problem saying "hasta la vista baby."