I dont see why these are urgent messages. It's still very early in the US. Im guessing some of the moderators or other folks could chime in. Be patient!
I agree.
All this conversation is nothing but pursuit and attachment. It is a form of control.
Cardinal rule is STFU!!
My suggestion is to think of that before you say anything from now on.
DETACH is the single most important thing that you can DO. You can slow the process down but you can't speed it up. Not detaching slows all this down.
MHO is that is NOT what you want to do, you want the process to go as fast as possible. Even though I could be talking about years!
