Very true, well for now i'm looking after him mostly and he's sleeping in the bed with me. I'll have him wknds if we D or S, and I will be spending each day with him in the week, in the evening. If my WW wants to go out, i'll gladly take him home with me.
We have both agreed that we must have as little impact on him as possible. She will move very close by too. School will stay the same. But we do need to see a child psychologist, it's in the pipeline.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.