I don't think she's depressed, but can't find what makes her consistently happy. She has good moments, but then gets stressed about something else. It seems to me right now she's trying to see if it's the marriage that is causing her to be unhappy. The don't believe anything she says thing is hard, but I can see it. She puts on a tough face, but is a soft person. Yesterday she said she's "doing great" but just a little tired and said she went to bed around 8.

Neither of us like being told what to do. We have tended to TELL the other person things rather than asking, and coming up with something mutually. She's a preschool teacher, and I've felt like sometimes she talks to me like one of her kids. But instead of addressing it, I'd just get angry or make a snide comment.

I'm about to be 35, she is 32.

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.