Please stop giving her articles on affairs. She's not going to listen to what you have to say about them, much less read the articles. The more you try to educate her on this stuff, the more determined she's going to be do what she's doing. Leave her to her mess and allow the emotional affair to die a natural death. Keep the focus on you and continue moving forward.
ciluzen,
Sorry for the hi-jack.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
