Hi Mozza, I'm sorry to hear about you and NG. Hope things work out in a way that you are happy with. You are quite right to go back to self focus and having fun. Interesting about the previous pattern of R's for the last while - I wonder why that is?

Yes, it's a useful time to have a think about whether it was truly satisfying for you and what you want going forwards too.

Take care and keep posting if we can help xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus