Well, New Girl and I are on a break now. It's her own initiative. I'm down, but I've seen much worse, as you all know. Is this a way to break up, softly? Perhaps, even if she seems honest about wanting some space to think (for 3 weeks). At this point, I'm trying to use the hard earned lessons of the S and D to deal with it: give her space, focus on myself, have fun, etc. It's mostly out of my hands and it's a good opportunity for myself to reflect on the R and if it was satisfying for me as well.
Originally Posted By: raliced
When you say new girl has had false starts - has she been married? Or has it never gotten that far?
It has never gotten that far. After a 4-year relationship in her late 20s, she's been in relationships that lasted 6 to 12 months for the last 6-7 years. Apparently, I'm about to be another one of these.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.