Well, I made it through the concert, only a small backslide. She was wanting to leave, and suggested I could go, probably so she could text the OM, or leave or something, I dunno. I told her she could go if she wanted, but to her it sounded bossy and she said, stop bossing me around. The signs are so obvious that she is distracted it is painful. I am working on the detachment but it is the hardest part of this thing. I left to work after and said I would be home in an hour or so. I saw a text on her phone, she slid it out of the way and made a big sigh, I will not say anything to her and act as if I don't care. I figure the more I do that the more I really don't care. I wonder why some posts get more love than others? I am getting weary of my situation, but will keep it up I feel I am getting better every day, but realize there will still be ups and downs.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
