I may have to rechristened you - The ChallengeMeister! You are throwing down challenges all over the place! I can't possibly keep up! smile

I'm glad to hear that you're still sleeping well. And that anger... well, you know by that it's totally par for the course. And daily jogging, too? Incredible!

I think that it's s great idea to agree with your D17 to limit discussions about your W/her mother. It might be a short-term diversion, and you both need to be able to talk about her sometimes and blow off some steam, but it's best to set limits. For one, she will always by your daughters' mother, so even if D17 is also upset with her right now, it's still her Mom you're talking about. Best to tread lightly.

I hope that you have a wonderful long weekend with your lovely daughters. May it be peaceful and calm, SH!


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16