And yes, it takes two to tango. My H knows how I felt about it, but his reply is that "nothing happened". Physical or not, his nothing is different from my nothing.
ciluzen,
I sent my wife a number of articles about emotional affairs. She says she doesn't believe in EA, it's just something someone "made up." She says that intercourse is the definition of an affair. And that's that.
When we got married I thought she'd continually get better (she has dissociative identity disorder), but since meeting her current "friend" things seemed to have gone downhill.
Right now my door isn't cracked open. Unless she made major changes I don't feel like I could ever trust her again.
Thank you for your feedback. This EA stuff is awful because so many people believe the friendship story and they don't realize that your spouse has literally replaced you with someone else. Yuck!
