Doodler - I read over your threads. Have you noticed, your wife was abused by a babysitter and her boyfriend, and now she's involved with this creepy guy AND his wife? Sounds like she is recreating on some sick level the dysfunction that happened to her as a child.
This is more common than you'd think. My ex was traumatized by his mother's divorcing his father when he was 17 - then he left when OUR youngest son was 17. Not a coincidence, I think.
kml,
Oh yes, I noticed the pattern. In fact, this isn't the first time; before I'd met my wife she had a "good friend" and the good friend's wife was very similar to my wife's current EA "friend." I thought the previous friendship was a bit odd, but it was prior to meeting my wife so I didn't think much of it.
Please note, it didn't seem so crazy back then because I didn't know the real nature of my wife's childhood abuse until about four years ago.
