I'm TRYING to do those things. I've read them and am trying. I'm taking care of my son, and had a great time playing in the pool with him. I almost lost it, because this is something we loved to do as a family. But I didn't. I told myself to stay strong, because I'm working for my son.
I've read a book on separation, and I'm picking up my copy of DR from the library tomorrow. I'm trying to validate. It's something I started on my own, somewhat, earlier this year.
It's hard to not ask her about us, and only talk about our son and how she's doing at work, what she's doing on Memorial Day,etc. I'm doing a good job keeping the texts, calls to a minimum and trying to be a friend. But it's HARD. I'm one of those people that fears the unknown!!


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.