Very true Roist! That's how I'm looking at it I've definitely detached a good bit which is what I needed to do to be able to stay in the same house I would be lying if I said I've detached completely, but I've come far enough to not let everything she does or doesn't do affect my attitude Learning to can control me and not control my environment has been key and it will be a long road to make it to where it's habit That's the goal for me Hopefully saving my first marriage is a by product of that, but if not that ok as well I just wanna know that I tried 100 percent. That's all I can do
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
