Not sure what to add on codependency that I haven't already written. J, you sound like a normal healthy person. What you describe is NOT me. I lived every breath for my W, spent every minutes I could with her, I couldn't stand being away from her, I never did things without her, she was my security blanket. Up until the last year, I seemed to be that for her also. I've mentioned a few things I have read on the subject, and videos I have watched. If someone has questions on my journey or specific questions I am willing to answer. Or pointers for me, I am all ears.
