Well, folks, I did great last night. H continued to IM me as I was doing other things on the computer, and he said something towards the end like "I think I'm coming home in a few." I chose to say nothing to that. "I'm so tired."
I said, "wow, me too" and promptly signed off, without a long, drawn-out goodbye, and went to bed. About a half hour later (around 11) here comes H in the door! I was floored, but said nothing. I spent a little while with him awake, then went to bed and stayed there. He was really sick during the night, and came to bed around 1.
It doesn't sound remarkable, but it kind of was. I was calm, I did my own thing, and I didn't freak out about anything! I got lots of rest and feel pretty good this morning. So I am well on my way to being rested for my trip this weekend.
I did okay last night - chalk one up for me. Toodles, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.