So here is the plan Leave work early remove money from joint accounts get home and remove money stashed in house for Maui trip (yes we were planning to go to Maui as a family)
When she gets home tonight have here sleep outside the MBR
Tomorrow morning cancel her phone.
When she calls on the way to her trip I will tell her to have her OM help her with the bill.
um, seems like a lot real fast. If your doing it to get a reaction from her, you want to hold back until your not emotional. I think the actions you want to take are fine, I'm just not sure you are doing them for you, instead of to hurt her.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
