So she called me yesterday to talk about the D. I asked her why she wasn't getting the papers, to which she said that she knows I won't agree to what she wants. It then somehow turned into her telling me how much I hurt her over the past couple months and past couple years. I tried to validate as much as possible without saying much. This went on for about an hour. She's texted this morning wanting pictures of the kids and such. The big mistake I made was responding in a 'sexual' manner to one of her texts. That didn't go over well, but we still seem on decent terms today.
Usually it only takes touching a hot stove once or twice before you learn that it hurts and not to do it again.
Sigh .....
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.