So I took the advice of the forum here and have dropped the idea of confronting her. I honestly believe there is nothing physical going on, but if the EA is still on, that still hurts.
But thru all the pain, it kind of feels good to release myself from the worry of what she might be doing and with who. I still want to be with her, but I'm definitely turning over a new leaf with myself, and will never go back to the way things were, thank god.
Booked some IC with a marriage counselor. I did ask if she was solution oriented and she said yes. I'm not even telling W about it, this is all for me.
