(((((myrhh))))) i have been in your spot for what seemed like forever, only it was 3 months. in my case, i know H was with OW. but it boils down to the same thing, lack of consideration for us. and i so agree with you, it is how WE handle it. i don't know many people who can take this sort of stuff daily from a loved one. detaching is just the pits. i admire you. i hope tomorrow will be a better day for all of us. big hug, slowly
