DDJ, Your not a babysitter, you are Dad, and your getting to spend time with the most important person(s) in your life... You will forever be the rock for your children, and that's the most important thing.

I can't speak to if its better for your WW to be in the home or not, I nvr got to that point (we will see what happens in future) but living in home or somewhere else, your job is going to be the same, great Dad, GAL and detach.

For what it's worth, your young, the age I was when I met my W, and have so much life in front of you.. If you take care of yourself, you will find happiness, whether it's with your current W or someone else. Be strong and you will be happy, you'll look back on the current sitch and be grateful you learned so much from the experience and how it made you a better man.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized