Well, W is mad at me. W did not agree to my divorce agreement. And W's attorney sent for the 5th time a proposal where W has sole physical custody of s14. By doing this and setting my parenting time low, W could get more child support $$$. I rejected W's proposal and asked W's attorney to cancel the upcoming judge's hearing.

When I rejected W's proposal, W shot out an email to us saying then "The upcoming hearing will not be cancelled." She wants this done as soon as possible.

I can't go to the hearing b/c I've lost my voice and I am still recovering from my extended hospital stay a few weeks ago.

I could write to the judge and make W looks foolish for pushing to go forward with a hearing which is mostly administrative in nature. But I will be patient today and see if W's attorney talk some sense to her.

I made W mad and didn't immediately try and fix things. Yes, I'm emotionally healthier than I've been in a long time.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace