Day 4 NIC (Not Initiating Contact by phone, text, email, or social media, Sunday drop off is unavoidable)

Wife initiated context yesterday via email.

I would like to start getting feed back from any conversations i have with my WW wife. Somethings may just need validation for me.
Sometimes I feel like I say too much, too little, or just the wrong things in general.

Here we go (Preface this with current co- parenting schedule W w\kids M,W,F,S H\kids t,th,sun)

Schools out next week, no summerschool first week schools out

W: There is no school or camp next week (tues thru fri) How do you want to handle the kids days off?

ME: Whatever works best for you. I'm working from home all week. Just let me know.

W: Do you want them during the day all week? I can pick them up Wed and Fri evening and drop off in mornings.

ME: That sounds great. What about Monday?

W: Do you want them? Should I pick them up in the morning or evening? I'm not going anywhere for the holiday.

ME: If you could pick them up in the morning on Monday, That would be great. Does 10:00 A.M work?

W: Sure. that is fine.


All comments are welcome


Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015