Stay focused on doing things for you. You sound as if your plans for action are about having an affect for your w.
You have been doing great things and I hope you continue, but I have to say that the theme in your posts and your request for advice is still very focused on her.
Stay at the house if you can benefit from it. Leave if you can benefit. Do not do it it to " show her" anything.
I challenge you on this as I am learning much about how we are what we think. Your postings are what you are thinking.
So my 2x4 for you this morning is, read and learn everything you can about detaching.
You are demonstrating great actions. As your mindset aligns this will be the point that you will truly be the person that only a fool would leave.
Keep on keeping on and know I am proud of all the efforts you are making and am praying for you and your family my friend.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
