At one point - was it last night, or during our intense and painful discussion the other night, when I said something, and he said in this really awful, sarcastic tone "well, Myrrh, let's just stay together then" as if that was the most loathsome, stupid, crazy option, as if it wasn't even an option - I haven't heard anything so obviously D-oriented in a long time - that and him saying "I think so" when I asked him if he was sure about the D. These two little things are really making me sad.
Should I put him out of his misery, and not pay attention to him wanting to cuddle, be touched, ML, sleep with me, etc? Is it my obligation to move this forward for him, since he doesn't seem to be able to right now?
Wow, I need some input - really trying not to obsess about these things. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
