Hi Captain Rouky - sounds like your ship is in good hands. Yes, I would keep is simple with your H - thanks for the advice today - I appreciate it...

As Shotgun says - don't sweat the interactions with him...I rarely worry about what I write to XH now (tho I'm always pleasant) and it is freeing.

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus